a friend just asked me some relationship stuffs online...she asked me, if i break up with my gf because i think that there's a problem between the way we communicate...will i still look back at the relationship...(patch up)...

well i simply told her this, " before you think of patching up with him, do you think the problem (communication) still exists or not..if it exists then why bother to..cause the outcome would be the same..breaking up eventually..and of course does your heart still yarn for him or not...(i didn't tell her that)...感情是要两方面的付出，不是单方面的..( told her this also..but i can't translate it into eng..sorry.)....

if the guy don't want, then you can not pester him also..maybe just let him go.. it may not be a bad thing, if the two of you are really meant for each other, then no matter what, you will still cross each other's pathway.. and eventually be together again, though the journey maybe long, but in the end, it makes the whole relationship, the journey even more memorable, unforgettable and treasurable。so don't have to force it..let nature takes it's own course..."

well, she said she's going to wait for another few more months...i told her..do you think it's worth it...wasting your time on someone who don't love you anymore...hoping that he will turn back but in fact he won't even look back at the relationship...(my own feeling about it, i didn't tell her that)..."really..is it worth it or not..different people will have different views..so i won't comment on it..it's really up to individuals..

she also said that there's something obstructing her way to carry on her normal life...then i also told her," it's up to you whether you want to let this obstacle to block you way, or to remove this obstacle that's blocking your way...get if off your heart. it's a pain to keep it..." well that's the end of the conversation..of course i told to be the usual girl that we all know lah..and i think she' s sensible enough lah..hahaha..love..

i hope today's blog will somehow will help someone at somewhere sometime....but all i can do is to talk about this but no real actions..haiz..coward..